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Why My Heart Is Your Valentine

‘Tis the season for caring and sharing and newly professed love! My favorite day of all days.

I find it makes sense that some people of the “web generation” are not particularly fond of Valentine’s Day, such a warm and personal holiday. Never mind the TV, malls and billboard advertisements. It’s about the distraught couple trying to find a resolution, the father waking his daughter up with Valentines Day smiles and hugs, and celebrating the idea that Saint Valentine passionately -yet secretly- defied Claudius by continuing to perform marriages for young lovers. It’s about writing that letter or telling that special someone how you feel; before it’s too late, or because you want to begin.

Someone once said, life is too short to keep secrets. Take it from me; we’re all here for a pre-determined time and when that time is up, that love is lost. This day is here to help those of us pass the message along a little bit easier. And the need for love, is not always a romantic one. Once upon a time, when we were young, we were taught to share kind Valentines messages with the rest of our classmates, at what age did we learn to stop doing this, to stop caring?

As a little girl my grandmother would send me a card, like clockwork I’d wait for it in the mail. We’d later visit them with a box of chocolates and she’d always gift me some sort of candy jar filled with gummy bears with cute lids inscribed with “I love you” messages written in puffy paints. What I loved most was that every year my sweet-toothed stepfather would buy several of those tin cans of popcorn we all love, a couple dozen variety of flowers, bags of the finest licorice and gummy bears - the high quality stuff, not your average Red Vine or HarBro - and the funniest Valentines card a father could pick out for his daughter at the nearest Osco Drug (always with at least an 8 1/2 page long letter attached). He would sneak into my room before I woke for school, and place all of it on my bed. The thing is, I never wondered why he wouldn’t do that for mom. I didn’t have to. And mom would love watching me smile, with the occasional grunt about him always buying too much candy. Everyday was Valentines for her, for a while anyways. He often wined and dined her, took her shopping and went on romantic road trips. They had plenty of romance. He purposely, with thoughtful intention, spoke to my heart…to a child’s heart. to show me that I was loved, that Valentines Day wasn’t only for romance and proposals. It’s about sharing love, making someone smile.. and just because you can.

No one else I knew at such an impressionable young age, had such wonderful Valentines Days. I hold those days, and the way he was, and encouraged me to be …very close to my heart. Close enough to be able to grab it and share that feeling with others. And sure, this is the first year I haven’t had a Valentine to share a kiss with. But I’m loved, and I love and I have friends to share my heart and smiles with…

“Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life; not so much by what happens to you as by the way your mind looks at what happens.” -Khalil Gibran

Happy St. Valentine’s Day to all!

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    • #care
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I’ve heard about 15 different versions of this. This one - the original - is the best. My now OFFICIAL absolute favorite song of all time. 

“This Guy’s In Love With You” - Herb Alpert, The Beat of the Brass

Click on the song title above if the link doesn’t work!

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    • #Music
    • #Song
    • #Songwriting
    • #Burt Bacharach
    • #Hal David
    • #1968
    • #A&M
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the wonderful words of an adrienne rich mind

No one’s fated or doomed to love anyone.
The accidents happen, we’re not heroines,
they happen in our lives like car crashes,
books that change us, neighborhoods
we move into and come to love.
Tristan und Isolde is scarcely the story,
women at least should know the difference
between love and death. No poison cup,
no penance. Merely a notion that the tape-recorder
should have caught some ghost of us: that tape-recorder
not merely played but should have listened to us,
and could instruct those after us:
this we were, this is how we tried to love,
and these are the forces they had ranged against us,
and these are the forces we had ranged within us,
within us and against us, against us and within us.

-Adrienne Rich

from  Twenty-One Love Poems, found in the volume The Dream of a Common Language: Poems 1974-1977 (UK; public library)

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    • #thoughts
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He who has gone, so we but cherish his memory, abides with us, more potent, nay, more present than the living man.
Antoine de Saint-Exupery
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    • #life
    • #memory
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    • #Antoine de Saint-Exupery
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Graham Hancock on His Most Recent Ayahuasca Experience

Such great insight. A wonderful read. I’m still working on putting together my notes on a couple psychedelic induced experiences from four/three months ago, somewhat of an unusual task for me to put into words. These notes leave me in complete awe of Graham’s ability to articulate the process that is essential to defining these sessions; that is, going into each session as an “I”, an observer for and of self…and leaving each session as “We”, thankful, loved and loving.

PS I don’t think these sessions are for everyone. I do believe that  experience can be had through the telling of these stories, as the case has been for thousands of years. At the very least, writing/reading these stories can do the brain some good. *Hear Cognitive Neuroscientist Michael Gazzaniga explain storytellings effects on the brain.

(my apologies about the links below, for some reason they can’t be fixed.)

——- please read the full text. it’s wonderful and fascinating, I promise!—-

This is the third of the series of articles I am posting about Ayahuasca sessions I’m presently participating in here in Brazil. Ayahuasca is a visionary brew that marries leaves containing dimethyltryptamine (DMT) with a monamine oxidase inhibitor contained in the Ayahuasca vine itself; these two primary ingredients are cooked together in water to produce a foul-tasting but highly psychoactive beverage that has been drunk for at least three millennia by the indigenous peoples of the Amazon rainforest, who value it as a portal to the spirit world. In the past decade it has begun to acquire a global reputation and has been described as “twenty years of psychotherapy in one night.” For those who missed the previous articles in this series I’m pasting them in at the end of this one as they provide context and background for what I have to say here. Meanwhile, since Ayahuasca is a potent psychedelic, and since its effects have a profound impact on consciousness, I’d like to share this short compilation video (in which I make a brief appearance at the end) on the subject of psychedelics and consciousness that was recently drawn to my attention by another poster here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3shL389L2EY .

So our latest session took place on the night of Monday 28 January into the small hours of Tuesday 29 January. This time I drank 80 mililitres of the brew in a single cup – as against three doses of 25 mililitres each on the previous session. With too small a dose of Ayahuasca it is perfectly possible to have no experience at all; with too large a dose it is possible to have an experience that is completely overwhelming – perhaps far more so that you would like. It is not an exact science and it is complicated further by differences in one’s own body chemistry from day to day that can result in widely varying effects.

I’m here together with a group of more than a dozen people and, as in previous retreats for serious work with Ayahuasca that I’ve participated in over the last ten years it is noticeable how close and trusting of one another we have become. The Ayahuasca experience has a very special way of doing this – of opening the heart and breaking down barriers so that you feel intense empathy and a deep connection with others at a level that is near to impossible in the often angry, often competitive, frequently loveless hustle and bustle and grind of daily life. It is a great privilege to be able to know this empathy and connection and reminds me that all of life could be like this should we consciously set out and be willing to do the work make it so. It is not oil, or water, or mineral deposits, or food, or land, or any other economic resource that is truly scarce or precious or “running out” in this bountiful Earth of ours. What we are short of as a global species, what we seem reluctant to manifest, what we are failing to express and act out, is simply love, and in a way this should be the easiest problem in the world for us to solve – for it is within the capacity and the power of each and every one of us to give love if we choose to do so.

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Happy Birthday to our wonderfully selfless, funny and beautiful mom who has always had a unique - and very special way - of showing us all just how much she loves us. There hasn’t been one person whom she has met, who hasn’t felt that energy from her. She’s pretty rad.

Billy Joel- She’s got a way

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to forget, is to smile.
learning to fly requires
the loss of your wings
to vacant memories
that in the end, fill the heart
with unpleasant laughter
too often confused with love.
always hoping to return
to a comfortable bliss.  

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a reason for everything

with him 
i climbed passion’s peak.
without him
i was able to see the horizon 
waiting on the other side.
he lit the way to the version of me
hidden under a temporary heart.
the struggle to find a buried spirit 
is the only road that prepares us 
for a life like this. for skin
as thick as this.    everything -
a factitious bliss

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Spiritualized - Too Late - Album: Sweet Heart Sweet Light

YIKES!

My momma said when she got so concerned
Don’t play with fire and you’ll never get burned
don’t touch the flame and you’ll never find out
My momma said that’s what loves all about

But its too late I’ve made up my mind
Love always shows when there’s eyes it can blind
Too late something I’ve learned
Love like the flame

My momma said if you cant find a friend
Don’t get to close cause you know it may end
Don’t get to deep cause you know you’ll regret
Heart ache and pain in love
that’s what you get

But its too late I’ve made up my mind
Love always shows when there’s eyes it can blind
Too late something I’ve learned
Love lights the flame when there’s hearts that get burned

This is dedicated baby
What more can I say
I won’t love you more than I love you today
And I won’t love you less but I’ve made my mistakes
Stay away from love dear
if that’s what it takes

But its too late I’ve made up made mind
Love always shows when there’s eyes it can blind
Too late something I’ve learned
Love lights the flame when there’s hearts that get burned

Too late, too late I’ve made up made mind
Love always shows when there’s hearts that can break

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Happy Birthday Princess,We get old and get use to each other. We think alike. We read each others minds. We know what the other wants without asking. Sometimes we irritate each other a little bit. Maybe sometimes take each other for granted. But once in awhile, like today, I meditate on it and realize how lucky I am to share my life with the greatest woman I ever met. You still fascinate and inspire me. You influence me for the better. You’re the object of my desire, the #1 Earthly reason for my existence. I love you very much.Happy Birthday Princess.John
- Letter Johnny Cash sent to his wife 1994
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Happy Birthday Princess,

We get old and get use to each other. We think alike. We read each others minds. We know what the other wants without asking. Sometimes we irritate each other a little bit. Maybe sometimes take each other for granted. 

But once in awhile, like today, I meditate on it and realize how lucky I am to share my life with the greatest woman I ever met. You still fascinate and inspire me. You influence me for the better. You’re the object of my desire, the #1 Earthly reason for my existence. I love you very much.

Happy Birthday Princess.

John

- Letter Johnny Cash sent to his wife 1994

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Presidential Proclamation -- National Mentoring Month, 2013 | The White House

Make a difference this New Year and contact your local Big Brothers Big Sisters agency to sign up to become a mentor.

Go to www.BigBrothersBigSisters.org and click on the “Volunteer” tab to start the process.

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Upstream Color 

OK. This might end up being the greatest film ever, or at least a very very good one. 

Cannot wait. 

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At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person. Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us.
Albert Schweitzer
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There are several kinds of love. One is a selfish, mean, grasping, egotistical thing which uses love for self-importance. This is the ugly and crippling kind. The other is an outpouring of everything good in you — of kindness and consideration and respect — not only the social respect of manners but the greater respect which is recognition of another person as unique and valuable. The first kind can make you sick and small and weak but the second can release in you strength, and courage and goodness and even wisdom you didn’t know you had.

John Steinbeck in Steinbeck: A Life in Letters

Song: “Kind & Generous” by Natalie Merchant

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